My fiance doesn't want to get married for 10 years?

I hate to break it to you, but he doesn't want to marry you. He may never want to marry you. So you have to decide if you can live with your relationship the way it is now or if you need to be married to be happy. If you need to be married, the only things you can do are move out and end the relationship. That will allow you the opportunity to find someone who shares your priorities.