Should I divorce my wife?

I cheat on her. I sneak out when she is sleeping. I use her to watch my son. My son use to misbehave but due to her attentiveness he listens. I cheat because i have problems. I just like to flirt and do not understand that flirting is opening the door of temptation. My wife cooks and cleans well. I dont like her to look at my cvell phone, because i give out my number allot and do not want her to know. I usually text/bbm the women so my wife does not notice strange numbers of the phone bill. I think my wife is joking about moving out how do i know she is for real. I do not want her to move as I will lose health insurance. I am too lazy to find a counsler. I do not take my wife out because i like to go out with my fiends and other girls.