Am i being "childish" or "immature"? or i this a good strategy to get him to act right?

Ive been dating this guy for 2yrs. He is always there 4 me, helps me out, gives me $, etc. I luv him deeply & i want to marry him 1day. The thing is, he doesnt do the things i think he should do. If we're n a relationship, i expect to talk 2 u daily. He doesnt call/txt that much. Told him i luv him, he doesnt say it back, hasnt intro me 2 his fam cuz "it would b 2 much pressure" (im thinkin bcuz i have a baby & im not married). I asked him 2 move n with me, he said im moving 2 fast. Im gettin tired of moving SLOW! After 2yrs i feel we should livin 2gether, already met fam, etc. So i cut him off! Im not talkin 2 other guys, i just want him to come 2 me like i came 2 him. Yes we TALKED about our issues & he said he would do better but he hasnt. I figure if i stop calln & txtn him, like a "break up" he will c how i feel & start to do the thing normal bf's do! Im basically "leaving" him temporarily so that he will realize & understand. And maybe he will get with the program