I dont know where to go anymore?

hmmm cutting and volmitting are probably the two worst things you can do to yourself...this is not a normal behavior in dealing with stress and i don't know why you don't find it scary. You need to love yourself......maybe this is a good time in your life to deal with who you are and what you want. Break ups are never easy for anyone but those who love each other dont argue all the time. Look at it as a positive change, starting fresh. This might give you an oppertunity to discover who you truly are compatable with. i take stress pills (effexor) to help me cope with life sometimes and hells ya they are fantastic. But you need to change your routine, Go get a haircut and a new pair of jeans. get your friends together and go out clubbing....just do something fun and liberating. and if none of those ideas work, buy a pizza, smoke a joint, and watch the starwars movies i garuntee you will sleep like a baby. Good luck to you....now that you have reached the bottom it will be easier to find the top.